Friday, March 11
You Tell Me
You tell me...is it normal to call an ex at every holiday, birthday and even Valentine's day? We're talking when you have a current relationship. I'm sincerely curious about this question. Thanks.
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13 dirty hippies blowing your mind:
Are you asking this because you are doing this or your partner is? I'm curious.
Regardless, it sounds like whoever is doing the contacting has some unresolved attachments to the Ex. It's really not OK or respectful to have contact with an EX at every special occasion, I think it diminishes what there is with the current partner.
If you are the one doing this, you might want to consider taking a break from your current relationship and sorting out your feelings for your partner/your Ex.
No judgment, but it's really not very nice or respectful to your partner to keep this up. You can't have a good relationship with ghosts of the past surrounding everything. Believe me, I know this from experience.
Nothing is worse than resentment and unresolved issues and mistrust. And this is a big breach of trust and respect.
Like my mother always told me, "If you have to ask the question, you already know the answer". OK, so maybe that doesn't work in everything, but with relationships, it ALWAYS works.
fuckt this shit This is why I don't get into relationships, people are asholes and should never be trusted. Believe, if phone calls are going on, more can or will with the right circumstances. shitty
If you the one doing the calling then call me sexy
If your boyfirend is hes a fucking idiot I'll give you all myattention, fuck exes are exes for a reason give him the boot hell realize what he misses
hmmm...people get worked up on this topic.
Happiness plan.
so either you are a jerk or your boyfriend is...or is this one of those "a friend of friend" storys
well, if its a secret its a problem if its matter of fact its probably not. sounds like everyone is assuming its a secret here tho...
Trust is the most important. Lying or sneaking makes mistrust. You should be always single if you have doubt about your loyalty.
Oh wow. This makes me sad. My now EX boyfriend used to hide that he was talking to his ex from me and that she INCESSENTLY tried to win him back/flirt/tell him she still loved him etc. AND HE LET IT GO ON!
I figured if it was such an important secret he should be allowed to keep it. WITH HER. Now HE'S the one trying to call me all the time. I've found someone new. WITHOUT WEIRD BAGGAGE.
Good Luck, like your blog!!
nothing is normal. live your own life. be friends with people you get along with. who cares if theyve seen you naked, etc. in fact even better.
tony has good advice.
yes, he generally does!
I like what Tony has to say, as usual.
I guess it all depends on the history. Or is it that this person gets an ego boost out of having their ex pine over them...?
I love jumping to conclusions!
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